Who Is To Say Which One Of Us Loves The Most

Written by: Maria Elouisa E. Enerlan
Date: July 27, 2007

YOU - "For all the things you do for me. When you felt his/her presence at times you needed a hand to hold you for comfort. A body to keep you warm. Quieting the wildest passion of my soul...."
I - "Hardly ever being around keeping you worried. Wondering when I am not always being there for your hunger and your laughter to hear. Is your love measured by the presence or the absence of the love one? Who is to say "I LOVE YOU?"
"Would you rather tell the person you care and love the most "I Love You" and think that you're lying? Or would you rather say "I Don't Love You" and know for sure that you're lying?"
Maybe because it pays to open up your HEART sometimes and basically you don't even know what will happen. But all you know with what you felt was REAL. We should all know that there's always pain and disappointments when falling in love, but make sure to continue sharing your love because the more you love, the more you'll get to know yourself. Every person you love becomes your REFLECTION. It's so funny how we always have these standards for prospective boyfriends and girlfriends, but we find out in the end that the one we eventually love are the exception to these standards.

We should know the reason in most relationship fall not because of the absence of love. Love is always present, it's just that the one loves too much and the other loves too little. Never expect love to be always at its best because if you do you'll never appreciate its existence. Remember that there will always be one true love for you to have and hold. It may not be the one you expect, but it’s the one you deserve. It could be someone who patiently and willingly waits just to be with you. The beginning of love is to let those we love be perfectly themselves and not to twist them with their own image. Otherwise, we love only the reflection of ourselves we find in them.
Today is not another day, but another chance. If you have something to say, SAY it now. If you have something to do, DO it now. If you have something to give, GIVE it now. Tomorrow may be too late. Never be afraid to fall in love. It may hurt a lot and it may give you pain. If you don't follow your HEART, in the end, you will cry even more for not giving Love a chance. Never be afraid of saying "I LOVE YOU" to the one we love and care the most, for there might come a time that he/she find the comfort of hearing it from somebody else...
We should always know that the only way for us to love is not finding the perfect person, but by loving the imperfect person perfectly. Love is not wondering how long it will LAST, but how beautiful you can make it GROW. We need not to promise forever in love. For it is better to love one day at a time and string those days together. For it is better to love someone for a minute and remember it for a lifetime. Than to love someone for life and hate every minute of it. It's not the presence of someone that brings meaning to life, but it’s the way that someone touches your heart which gives life a BEAUTIFUL MEANING.
I hope what I have written would inspire those people who were In Love, in Hurt/Pain, Happy, Sad, in Despair/Sorrow, Hearts were Broken. What else? Well, to those who never gave up and never lose hope, and to those who still continue to share their Love.

NOTE: To all who get a chance to read this, please feel free to make a comment to this message, so that I'll be able to know your thoughts, insights, and opinions regarding with this one. Thank you!

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