101 Steps to Having a Good Relationship

Okay, ladies and gentlemen. I have a list of 101 most romantic, passionate, and sweet things to do for your girlfriend or boyfriend. I know most of the stuff here are a little bit kinky, but it’s always up to both of you if you would like doing all these things or you just have to choose if which one works best for you. Good luck and enjoy your times together.

1. Watch the sunset together.
2. Take showers together.
3. Give back rubs or massages.
4. Listen to classical music and cuddle in the dark or with a night light.
5. Do the French kiss.
6. Hold her with your hands inside the back of her shirt.
7. Whisper sweet nothings to each other.
8. Cook a nice meal for each other or you can also do it together.
9. Skinny dipping.
10. Make out in the rain.
11. Dress each other.
12. Undress each other.
13. Kiss every part of their body.
14. Hold hands together.
15. Sleep together (actually sleep together with each other, not having sex)
16. One word - Foreplay.
17. Just sit and talk together wearing only your underwear.
18. Buy gifts for each other.
19. Roses.
20. Find out their favorite cologne or perfume and wear it every time you’re together.
21. Wear his clothes.
22. Find a nice secluded place to lie and watch the stars at night.
23. Using incense, candles, oils, night or black lights, and music are great for cuddling or making love.
24. Kiss each other in every chance you get.
25. Don’t wear any underwear and let them find out.
26. Kinky is bad = 85 Blindfolds are good.
27. Lightly kiss their collarbone and their jawbone just below the ear. Then whisper I love you.
28. Bubble baths together are good.
29. Go for a long walk down the beach at midnight.
30. Make love all night long.
31. Write a nice poetry for each other that come from the heart.
32. Kiss or smell her hair.
33. Hugs are the universal medicine, so give your loved one a nice big hug.
34. Say I LOVE YOU, only when you mean it and make sure that they know you mean it.
35. Give random gifts of flowers, candy, poetry, or etc. just to surprise them.
36. Tell her that she‘s the only girl you ever want in your life. Don’t lie.
37. Spend every second, minute, hour of every day together.
38. Tell her that she does not have to do anything she does not want to. Make you mean it when you say it to her.
39. Look into each other’s eyes.
40. Lightly push her chin up. Look deep into her eyes and tell her how much you loved her then kiss her lightly.
41. Talk to each other using only your body language and your eyes.
42. When you’re in public, only flirt with each other.
43. Walk behind her and put your hands in her front pockets.
44. Put a love note in their pockets when they aren’t looking.
45. Clothes on are no fun.
46. Buy her a ring.
47. Keep one of her bras somewhere where you see it every day (guys don’t think of yourself as perverts)
48. Sing a nice song to each other.
49. Read something nice and something heart-warming to each other.
50. PDA means Public Display of Affection.
51. Take advantage of any given time when you’re alone together.
52. Tell her about how you answered every question in math with her name on it.
53. Draw (if you can)
54. Let her sit on your lap if it’s just you’re alone in the room.
55. Go hiking and camp out together in the woods or a mountain.
56. Lips were made for kissing, so were eyes and fingers which include the cheeks, collarbones, hands, and lastly the ears.
57. Kiss her stomach.
58. Always hold her around her hips or sides.
59. Guys like half-shirts.
60. Take her to a nice dinner and try doing the dinner for two deals.
61. Spaghetti (Ever see Lady and the Tramp? Then that’s perfect)
62. Hold her hand. Stare in her eyes. Kiss her hand and then put it over your heart, so that she could feel every beat it takes.
63. Unless you can feel their heart beating, you are not close enough.
64. Dance together.
65. Sit in front of a roaring fire and make out or make love.
66. I love the way a girl looks right after she’s fallen asleep with her head in my lap.
67. Carry her to bed.
68. Waterbeds are fun.
69. You figure it out.
70. Do cute things like writing I love you in a note, so that they have to look in a mirror to read it.
71. Break every one of your parents’ relationship rules for them.
72. Make excuses calling them every five minutes.
73. Even if you are really busy doing something, go out of your way to call and say I love you.
74. Call from your vacation spot to tell them you were thinking about them.
75. Remember your dreams and her about them.
76. Ride your bike 8 miles just to see them for a few hours.
77. Ride home and call them.
78. Tell each other your most sacred secrets or fears.
79. Somehow incorporate them into any kind of religion or worship you have.
80. Be a Prince Charming to her parents. (Brownie Points)
81. Act out some mutual fantasies together (does not have something sexual)
82. Brush her hair away from her face.
83. Stay up all night and think of 101 ways to be super sweet to them.
84. Hang out together with his or her friends (More brownie points)
85. Go to church to attend a mass and pray together.
86. Take her to see a romantic movie and remember the parts she liked.
87. Cuddle together under a full moon a clear night.
88. Learn from each other and don’t make the same mistake twice.
89. Everyone deserves a second chance.
90. Describe the kind of joy you feel just to be with him or her.
91. Make sacrifices for each other.
92. Really love each other or else don’t stay together.
93. Write a fictional story about how you met or you fell in love, etc. and give it to them as a surprise.
94. Let there never be a second during any given day that you are not thinking about them and make sure they know it.
95. Love yourself before you love anyone else but don’t try to neglect others in one way or another.
96. Learn to say sweet things in foreign languages.
97. Dedicate songs to them on the radio.
98. Fall asleep on the phone with each other.
99. Sleep naked together.
100. Stand up for them someone try to talk trash to him or her.
101. Never forget to kiss goodnight and always remember to say, “Sweet dreams.”

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