True Friends are based on a...

If a friend is willing to stop being your friend when you need him or her the MOST... Well I hate to break it to you, but that's not much of a friend. True friends are the ones that tell you they will be there for you through thick and thin, lend an ear to bend, a shoulder to cry on and always be your friend whether they agree with your relationship decisions or not. If it makes you feel any better, some of the bad relationships I have been and whined to my friends about have really helped me bring closer to my friends and find out who was truly there for ME.

Do what makes you happy, and if this special person (who sounds like a handful and does love you) is what makes you happy. Then I say stick to that person and discover new things together. A friend will be at your side to guide you and back you up, but basically the relationship is between YOU and your PARTNER. Learn to put your TRUST in each other's hand and build your own memories together.

Let's Be Friends

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